1、并不是随着年纪的成长，每一个人都会变得更加成熟的，有的人就算是见得多，也不一定懂得多。凡事靠自己，也要相信自己。

Not with the growth of age, everyone will become more mature, even if some people see more, they do not necessarily know much. Everything depends on oneself, also must believe in oneself.

2、人总是在接近幸福时倍感幸福，在幸福进行时却患得患失。

People always feel happy when they are close to happiness, but they are worried about gains and losses when they are happy.

3、长大其实是一瞬间的事情，根本不用等到你十八岁成人，你只需要经历一件难忘的事或者是遇见一个让你放不下的人。

Growing up is an instant thing. You don't have to wait until you are 18 years old. You just need to experience an unforgettable event or meet someone you can't let go.

4、最终你相信什么就能成为什么。因为世界上最可怕的二个词，一个叫执着，一个叫认真，认真的人改变自己，执着的人改变命运，不期待突如其来的好运，只希望所有的努力终有回报。

In the end, what you believe can be what you believe. Because the two most terrible words in the world, one is persistence, the other is serious, serious people change themselves, persistent people change their fate, do not expect sudden good luck, only hope that all efforts will eventually pay off.

5、感情这种事，别问为什么，心甘情愿就是最好的答案；缘分这东西，别想怎么样，风雨来袭就是最好的检验。

Feelings such things, don't ask why, willing is the best answer; fate this thing, don't think about how, the wind and rain is the best test.

6、瞻前顾后的人最迷茫，因为不知道自己想要的是什么，东张西望的人最累，因为总觉得自己过得比别人难。

People who look forward to the future are most confused, because they don't know what they want, and those who look around are the most tired, because they always feel that their lives are more difficult than others.

7、每个人的性格中，都有某些无法让人接受的部分，再美好的人也一样。所以不要苛求别人，也不要埋怨自己。

In everyone's character, there are some parts that can't be accepted, no matter how beautiful people are. So don't be hard on others, and don't blame yourself.

8、我们都是一群多么可怜的人，喜欢的人无法得到，获得的不珍惜，在一块的怀疑，失去的怀念，怀念的想相见，相见的恨晚，终其一生，都满是遗憾。

We are a group of how poor people, like the people can not get, get do not cherish, in a piece of doubt, missing the memory, miss want to meet, meet too late, the end of their life, are full of regret.

9、我们总是关注我们得到的东西是否值钱，而往往忽略放弃的东西是否珍贵。

We always focus on the value of what we get, and often ignore the value of what we give up.

10、有些苦，你得亲自去吃，才会变得聪明；有些累，你得亲自去受，才会变得豁达。如果没有经受过投入和用力的痛楚，又怎么会明白决绝之后的海阔天空。

Some bitter, you have to eat in person, will become smart; some tired, you have to go to suffer, will become open-minded. If you have not experienced the pain of input and effort, how can you understand the boundless sky after the decision.